Sunday, July 26, 2020

Apartment Life #212



This is a new weekly blog post that I'm calling Apartment Hell  Life. I've mentioned a few times some of the crazy things that go on in and around my apartment complex in the past 21 years that we've lived here and people keep telling me I should write a book. But instead of a book, I've decided to share the crazy things that have happened in and around my apartment complex in the last 21 years here in a weekly blog post.


On Tuesday I opened my door to take Falcor out an there were 4 police officers at the apartment right across from me. So when I went outside I took a picture of the cop cars near the sound wall. I don't know what they were talking to the guy that lives there for but they stayed for about 20 minutes and then left. The guy is quiet most times so I have no idea what the police were there for. 


On Friday night I took the dog for a walk at 4am and there was some guy banging on the drug dealers door 4 doors down from me. Ken got up and stood outside to make sure I was alright because this guy started banging on a bunch of the doors and woke a bunch of people up. When the drug dealers wouldn't answer their door, he started yelling that he was going to kill them. On his way out he stopped in front of Ken and just stood there staring at him for a second. He passed me on the sidewalk and when he was just a few feet from me he started screaming at no one in particular and I couldn't make out what he was saying. 

That same night someone broke into a bunch of the mailboxes for our apartment complex. Our neighbor came over in the morning and told us to go check our mailbox to make sure it wasn't one of the ones that were broken into. Thankfully it wasn't. I told you guys a few years ago that my mailbox had gotten messed up and it's really hard to open and close and I put in a work order for the usps to fix it. They never did even though I called several times so now I'm wondering how long it will take for this to get fixed. 

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Life Update: 

Ken went to have eye surgery on Monday. They said it could be a couple of things but wouldn't know for sure until they got int here. He came through the surgery fine. On Tuesday he went back in for a check up and was told the bad news. It was retinitis and the surgery didn't work. There's nothing more they can do for that and so he's permanently blind in his right eye. Not good news this week but he's doing alright. I just feel bad because so much more keeps getting piled on him all the time it seems. He starts radiation treatments on Monday for the 11 brain lesions he has. He goes 5 days a week for 2 weeks. 


*Ken with his eye patch after surgery.*


One very nice thing that happened this week though was my daughter mentioned on her fb page that I was getting the run around with the doctor and the DME place to get Ken a shower chair. I've been waiting 3 months for them to deliver it and was just going to buy one at this point. One of my daughter's old teachers from high school saw her post and bought this shower chair and brought it over to us. I thought that was so nice of him. 

So that's it for this week's Apartment Hell  Life! Be sure to come back next week for more.

47 comments:

  1. Very sorry to hear about the eye. I do hope his other eye is in good shape.

    That was a great gesture by the teacher, but you shouldn't have been getting the runaround for three months!

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    1. The left eye is in good shape. The teacher was so thoughtful. Yeah it shouldn't have taken this long but all I get is the run around most times with anything.

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  2. I am so sorry to read about Ken's eye - and glad that you had a bit of niceness this week.
    I am holding you both in my heart.

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    1. Thank you. I am so greatful to all the nice people right now.

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  3. You live in a dangerous place all right! I didn't know there were drug dealers in the area, on top of everything. I wonder how you can deal with everything at this point - Ken's health being what it is. The poor guy didn't need another blow, for goodness' sake. I hope the other eye is fine at least!

    Hang on in there!

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    1. Yeah, it's dangerous around here. Ken is dealing with everything really well considering.

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  4. I'm so sorry to hear Ken's news. It must feel like a real kick in the teeth for him when he has other stuff to deal with. I'm sorry Mary. It must be really hard on you and your daughter too. How nice to get the unexpected gift though.

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    1. The surprise shower chair was nice. I was so surprised by that. It just seems like one thing after another.

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  5. Sorry to hear about Ken's eye, but thankful for good neighbors. Messing with mailboxes is a serious federal offense if they catch the folks.

    www.thepulpitandthepen.com

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    1. I hope they do get caught. Thank you.

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  6. Very sorry about Ken's eye. Super nice of that person to bring you a shower chair though.

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    1. Thank you. The teacher was so thoughtful.

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  7. Most of us feel like 2020 sucks, but it’s nothing compared to what Ken is going through. Hang in there, Mary.

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    1. I am hoping that all these treatments he is going through will at least help in the long run.

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  8. May God give Ken the strength he needs for coping with the situation (post- eye surgery, oncologic treatments)!

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  9. Yes for kindness.

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  10. That was so nice .hope things are looking better for ya.

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  11. We're think of you and Ken and sending hugs your way.

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  12. So sorry about Ken's eye. I pray things start getting better for both of you soon!

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  13. So sorry to hear about Ken's eye, that's just not cool at all. But that teacher was so kind! I know how hard it is to get the medical items you need in a timely manner first hand.

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    1. It really shouldn't be so damn hard to get medical equipment but it is.

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  14. He’s going to have that Nick Fury look

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    1. I told him I'm going to get him a patch.

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  15. Oh I'm sorry about the surgery result. But I love hearing about acts of kindness/decency. I often tell 'my' kids that ALL we can do to improve our lives is to take care of those around us. To care.

    (((hugs))) to you. This is all so much to deal with.

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    1. Thank you. I was so surprised by his kindness.

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  16. WOW ....this is so crazy. I can't believe it with the mailbox ...ppl are just insane...glad to see you are both safe!!

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  17. I am so sorry to read about Ken's eye, but good to read about the kind gesture from the teacher.

    My continued prayers and positive thoughts.

    All the best Jan

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  18. Ken and you are on my mind. But what on the other side of wall

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    1. The freeway is on the other side of the wall.

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  19. I'm sorry to hear about Ken's eye surgery! Hope he does ok with his treatments. Sending positive thoughts your way!

    Mail theft is a big thing apparently. They do it here too. We don't have a locked one, but we should. At least they didn't get into yours.

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    1. Thank you. Yeah if these weren't locked the mail would get stolen all the time.

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  20. I am sorry that the surgery didn't work. Man, can he just get a win for a change where his health is concerned?

    That was really nice of the lady to bring the shower chair, but it pisses me off that those things should be covered under our health care. Why is it we have to fight for basic necessities like that?

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    1. I don't know. His doctors office gives me the run around all the time too.

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  21. I'm sorry to hear the surgery couldn't correct his eye. Sending positive thoughts and prayers your way. Acts of kindness are always welcomed when we need them the most.

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  22. I hope he feels better

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  23. Sorry to hear about Ken's eye. You all have more than enough on your plates right now.

    At least there was a act of kindness for you.

    Karen @ For What It's Worth

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    1. I had to share that act of kindness. I loved that. it's nice to see people doing nice things in the world we have right now.

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  24. Sorry to hear the eye surgery didn't work out. As you say, he's really going through the mill at the moment.

    External mailboxes are very unusual in the UK, mostly we just have letter boxes in our front doors. I've heard before of US mailboxes being broken into. I guess you need really sturdy ones.

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    1. He really is. Some houses have front door mailboxes. But apartments have banks of mailboxes like you see here.

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