Wednesday, February 07, 2007

private email vs posting something on a forum thread for everyone to see

I'm not gonna say who, what where or when so don't ask, but if you're gonna post a negative remark about someone becuase they did something you don't like I really believe this should be settled in a private email and not be posted in the forum.

Because everyone else who reads it is gonna jump in and jump on that person saying, yeah why did you do that? Because most people have nothing better to do than to belittle someone else. Even someone they don't know anything about. Think about it, most people on forums think they can say anything they want, because they aren't speaking to someone face to face, so who cares if you hurt their feelings. Well people there is a real fucking person behind the screen that you are typing on and they DO have feelings.

Doesn't matter anyway, I can choose not to go to that forum anyway, I don't need the drama.

This will however make the fourth such forum that I have decided to stop going to, and they wonder why they have no traffic after a while

Wake the fuck up people!. It's because the moderators and owners choose to let shit like this go on. Maybe have a little balance between letting people speak their minds and not going to far and people wills tay, but if the members are continuosly getting internetly bitch slapped, they are going to leave and you have no one but yourself to blame when your forum has no memebrs or only members that are assholes.

end of rant.